Day 209: Corn & Chicken

That is what we had for dinner, plus tatter's. It was delicious! Corn on the cob, BBQ chicken, and baked taters. Had to start everything early today, Kwin had an appt. with DeAnna today, I forgot he had one on Friday, and she called....OOPS! So he had a late one today. He was going to put on a puppet show for us, but he got shy. I'm starting to have concern with Kwin a little, he see's Chelsea not talk, and he is doing it sometimes. He didn't talk to DeAnna again, he was doing really well. If you went through what I went through, before we found out Chelsea had selective mutism, it was just worrisome. And now to see these things abrupt in your other child causes a bit of anxieties for me. I now know what I can to do to help Kwin, I am still trying to figure out how to help Chelsea. It's a road no parent wants to go down with their child. Most people don't believe in it, or don't know about it. I don't think Kwin will have SM, but it just is at your mind when he is being shy. I have a few other concerns for Chelsea, not sure if it's just an age thing, or what? But she doesn't really take good care of herself. She can leave her hair a rats nest, and I mean a rats nest! I have to tell her to change her clothes, or she will wear the same outfit....although Kwin often does that too. Which reminds me how Keagan wore that hideous sweater that he got, and wore it every. single. day. I had to hide this thing, and he would get so upset! LOL With Kwin I just say, whatever.....it's not like they are THAT dirty. lol I know, gross. But I am picking my battles. If he wants to wear the dirty shirt, then wear it. But you are not going out in public with me, wearing it. Home, you can be dirty, and in public you need to be clean. LOL. Simple as that......after many meltdowns I learned it was that simple. ;)

                                           Eatin' Chicken.

             Picture of a fairy in my garden I took today.